What Are Keen Observations?

Keen observations involve noticing and commenting on interesting or unique details about the other person or the environment around you. In flirting, keen observations can demonstrate attentiveness, create conversation topics, and help build rapport.


1. Be genuine.

2. Focus on positive or neutral observations.

3. Use observations as conversation starters.


1. Don’t make intrusive or overly personal observations.

2. Don’t use observations to criticize or belittle.

3. Don’t fixate on superficial details.