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What Does Acting Aloof Mean?

What Does Acting Aloof Mean?

Acting aloof is a flirting tactic where one person appears detached or disinterested, but secretly wants to attract the attention or interest of another person. This approach is often used to create intrigue, generate curiosity, and make the other person wonder what’s going on in your mind.


1. Be subtle.

2. Show occasional signs of interest.

3. Use it sparingly.


1. Don’t overdo it.

2. Don’t be rude.

3. Don’t ignore the other person completely.

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