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What Is Push-Pull?

What Is Push-Pull?

Push-pull is a flirting technique that involves alternating between showing interest (pull) and appearing disinterested or aloof (push). This dynamic creates a sense of intrigue and can make the other person more eager to pursue the connection.


1. Be subtle.

2. Balance interest with mystery.

3. Be mindful of their reactions.


1. Don’t be manipulative.

2. Don’t send mixed signals.

3. Don’t push them away too much.

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